Archive for August, 2009

this is it…

Friday, August 28th, 2009

yes today is august 28, 2009

and i can’t wait to see my precious little one..

can’t wait to see how she dance…

on how she giggle…

how she eats food and drink her favorite “yakult”

love you and miss you so much my princess cj…

see you tomorrow baby…

mwuaahhhhh….

hello…

Saturday, August 22nd, 2009

hello my baby…

just a week away..

and will see each other again..

me, you, and papa…

love you baby…

Mommy’s Little Girl

Thursday, August 20th, 2009

You’re the end of my rainbow, my pot of gold.

You’re mommy’s little girl, to have and hold.

A precious gem is what you are.

You’re mommy’s bright and shining star.

You’re sugar, you’re spice,

You’re everything nice,

And you’re mommy’s little girl.

Diaper Rash (Causes & types, Treatments and Prevention)

Thursday, August 20th, 2009

Causes & types of diaper rash

Diaper rash is most commonly caused by the constant wetting and drying of the skin along with repetitive exposure to a variety of irritating substances.  Once the naturally dry barrier of a baby’s skin has been irritated it becomes red, warm, rough and can lead to a variety of infections.  The most common irritants are urine, stool, bacteria from urine and stool, ammonia – which is formed by the baby’s stool breaking down the chemicals in urine, detergents, perfumes, plastics and dyes from single use disposable diapers, pre-moistened baby wipes, soaps and reactions to creams.  The term “diaper rash” describes several different kinds of skin conditions in the diaper area.  Below is a list of the different types of diaper rash and what they usually look like.

Chafing dermatitis (diaper chafing): This is the most common form of diaper rash, which can make the genital area and folds of the thighs & buttocks appear red and puffy.  Diaper chafing or the baby being in a wet and dirty diaper for too much time causes this type of rash.  This type of rash generally comes and goes, causing little discomfort as long as it’s not complicated by a secondary infection.

Atopic Dermatitis (Eczema): This type of rash shows up as red scaly patches on the legs and in the groin area.  This rash may turn up in other parts of the body first while spreading to the diaper area between 6 and 12 months of age.  Atopic dermatitis can be caused by many things including allergens, irritants, environmental and hereditary factors.

Candidal dermatitis (yeast infection): This type of rash is usually tender and painful, appearing in the folds of the baby’s genitals, legs and the creases between the abdomen and thighs.  This rash will start as small red spots that become more numerous and then form together as a raised bright red rash with distinct edges.  The most common cause of this type of rash is a baby that is taking or has been taking antibiotics.

Perianal dermatitis: This type of rash appears as a bright to dark redness around the anus.  The stools of bottle fed babies being more alkaline than normal are sometimes the cause it.  This rash will usually not appear with breast fed babies until after solids are introduced.

Seborrheic dermatitis (cradle cap): This rash will appear as a deep red rash that is rough, raised and often has yellowish scales.  This type of rash usually starts on the scalp as cradle cap, although it can sometimes begin in the diaper region and then its spreads upward.  This rash is usually caused by overactive oil glands in the skin.

Impetigo: This type of rash can appear as yellow-brown crusty patches or pus filled pimples or blisters, which is usually accompanied by a lot of surrounding redness.  This rash can cover the buttocks, lower abdomen, anus, umbilical cord, and thighs and then spread to other parts of the body. Impetigo is caused by bacteria (streptococci or staphylococci).  If you think your baby’s rash is a bacterial infection, be sure and notify your doctor immediately.  Your doctor will most likely prescribe a topical or oral antibiotic.

Tidemark dermatitis: This rash is an irritation that occurs from the edges or bindings of a diaper rubbing against the skin.

Intertrigo: This rash will appear as a reddened area, which occurs as a result of skin rubbing on skin.  It is usually found in the folds between the thighs and abdomen and sometimes in the armpits.

Treatments for diaper rash

The best treatment for diaper rash is prevention.  The best prevention is keeping your baby’s diaper area clean and dry.  Even with all the prevention in the world, your baby may still get diaper rash.  Don’t feel to blame, because it’s very common.  The following preventative measures will help you treat a current case of rash and also help you prevent reoccurrences.

Frequent diaper changes: Change your baby’s diaper as soon as he or she has wet or had a bowel movement.  Wash your baby’s bottom with warm water using wash clothes or cotton balls instead of  “baby wipes”.

Barrier or blocking ointments: Using an ointment such as Desitin, A&D, Eucerin, zinc oxide or Nivea on your baby’s bottom can put a protective barrier between urine, stool and your baby’s skin.  Most doctors recommend avoiding the use of talcum powder, which can cause lung problems and cornstarch, which can cause yeast to form.

Fresh Air: Give your baby’s bottom more time in the open air without diapers on.  When you’re at home, place your baby on a few cloth diapers or blankets over a waterproof pad.  The more fresh air that your baby’s bottom is exposed to the faster the rash will heal.

Different type of diapers: If your baby is having a recurring problem with diaper rash try switching the type of diapers you are using.  If you are using disposable diapers, try switching to cloth.  Some of the dyes and perfumes in disposables may be the cause of your baby’s rash.  If you’re using cloth diapers, try putting the diapers through a second wash cycle in clear water without detergents.

Avoid soaps and other irritants: Limit the use of soap on your baby’s bottom.  Washing with soap 2 or 3 times a week is enough.  Even if you’re using a mild soap for sensitive skin, your baby might be having a reaction to it.  When your baby has had a bowel movement use plain warm water and wash clothes or cotton balls to clean his or her bottom.  Baby wipes can cause more irritation to an existing rash and some wipes contain alcohol, which is very drying to your baby’s skin.

Prevention of diaper rash

Prevention is the key to keeping diaper rash from occurring.  Below are some ways of preventing diaper rash.

Fresh air: Give your baby’s bottom fresh air without diapers on as often as possible.  With your baby’s skin being kept dry and clean you may never have to worry about diaper rash.

Cleanliness: Change your baby’s diapers as soon as they become wet or soiled.  With your baby consistently having dry clean diapers on, the probability of diaper rash decreases substantially.

Cloth diapers: Studies have shown that the use of single use disposable diapers increases the likelihood of diaper rash.  Consider using cloth diapers while you’re at home and use disposables when you are on the go and away from home.

Use mild detergents: Use a very mild detergent, such as Dreft when washing cloth diapers and wash clothes that are used to clean your baby’s bottom.

Introduce new foods carefully: When introducing new foods to your baby, stay on one particular food for at least 3 to 5 days.  If your baby is allergic to a particular food, it will show up within this time frame.

When should I call and see my doctor?

If your baby’s diaper rash doesn’t clear up and improve in a day or two, if blisters appear, if the rash is bright red or has crusted areas, if your baby is not eating well, if at any time your baby develops a fever or appears to not feel well, call your doctor immediately.  Your doctor will be able to tell you what type of diaper rash your baby is experiencing and will tell you the proper way to treat the rash.  Your doctor may prescribe some type of ointment or antibiotic depending on what type of rash your baby has; the doctor may also want to change your diet if you are breast-feeding or change your baby’s diet if you’re are introducing new foods.

Never use treatments your friends suggest or treatments you may read about instead of doing what your doctor tells you to do. Your baby’s doctor knows what is best for your baby.

Discipline That Works

Saturday, August 15th, 2009
Looking to minimize your toddler’s misdeeds? Follow these smart (and sanity-saving) strategies for encouraging good behavior.

Toddlers are totally fascinating and adorable and a ton of fun — most of the time. And then there are times when their happy-go-lucky demeanor morphs into some pretty monstrous behavior. What’s a mom to do when her toddler’s head goes a-spinning and that voice starts a-shouting (often in loud screams of “No! No! No!”)? The trick (one of many you’ll do well to have up your mom sleeve) is to react to such rampages and mischief in a way that won’t encourage future misdeeds. Sound like a challenge? It certainly can be. But once you establish a pattern of discipline that works, you’ll spend less time scolding and more time enjoying your tot. Read on for tips on how to encourage good behavior.

poem for today!!!

Saturday, August 15th, 2009

“A baby girl…
one of the most beautiful miracles in life,
one of the greatest joys we can ever know,
and one of the reasons why
there is a little extra sunshine, laughter and happiness
in your world today.”

Breast-Feeding May Lower Breast Cancer Risk

Thursday, August 13th, 2009

Aug. 10 (HealthDay News) — Women who breast-feed their babies even for short periods of time may lower their risk of developing premenopausal breast cancer if they have a family history of the disease.

“We saw a 59 percent lower risk of breast cancer among women with a family history who had ever breast-fed,” stated Dr. Alison Stuebe, lead author of a study appearing in the Aug. 10/24 issue of the Archives of Internal Medicine. “It is surprising to see this really strong association with a pretty decreased risk.”

Stuebe is an assistant professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Medicine, but she conducted the study while affiliated with Brigham and Women’s Hospital/Harvard Medical School in Boston.

The risk reduction was seen in women who had breast-fed for as short a period as three months.

Numerous other benefits of breast-feeding have been found, not just for babies but for mothers as well.

A study released in April, for instance, found that women in their 60s who had breast-fed for more than 12 months over their lives were nearly 10 percent less likely to develop cardiovascular disease, and significantly less likely to develop heart disease risk factors, such as high blood pressure, diabetes and high cholesterol.

Previous research on the connection between breast cancer and breast-feeding has been limited, although other, less rigorous, studies have also suggested a decrease in risk.

This study looked at about 60,000 women who had given birth at least once and were participating in the Nurses’ Health Study II.

The lowering in the risk of breast cancer was seen only in women who had breast-fed and who had a mother or sister who had had the malignancy. And it only applied to premenopausal breast cancer.

The lowering of risk was about the same as seen with hormonal treatments such as tamoxifen in women at high risk for a malignancy, the authors stated.

There was no reduced risk in women who did not have a family history of the disease. Nor was there any difference depending on how long the mother breast-fed or the intensity of breast-feeding (whether the baby was breast-fed exclusively or not).

The reduced risk did not seem to have any link with hormones, given that the risk did not differ with the amount of time a woman went without a period while breast-feeding.

The researchers postulated other hypotheses to explain the link.

“It may be something about the first couple of days postpartum if the woman doesn’t breast-feed,” Stuebe said. “The breast tissue has to shut down, and there’s a lot of inflammation and discomfort. Perhaps on a molecular level there’s going some kind of damage.”

This theory is supported by the fact that women who used medication to stop lactating also had a lower risk.

“This data would suggest it’s more of the effect of milk being taken out of the breast tissue after pregnancy that’s beneficial,” Stuebe said. “We know that just being pregnant reduces the risk of breast cancer compared with not having been pregnant. Getting milk out afterwards appears to be part of the phenomenon.”

The real value of the study, added Dr. Richard Bleicher, co-director of the breast surgery fellowship at Fox Chase Cancer Center in Philadelphia, may be less in the clinical implications but in the fact that it helps point researchers towards avenues for understanding the mechanisms of breast cancer.

Babies Have So Much To Do

Wednesday, August 12th, 2009

In a world that’s all brand-new,
Babies have so much to do!
Laughing, making funny faces,
Finding out those ticklish places…
Cuddling up and wiggling toes,
Looking cute in tiny clothes…
Tasting, touching, reaching high,
Crawling under, scooting by…
Learning words and having fun-
Making memories one by one.

I love you

Wednesday, August 12th, 2009

I loved you from the very start,
You stole my breath, embraced my heart.
Our life together has just begun,
You’re part of me my little one.

As mother with child, each day I grew,
My mind was filled with thoughts of you.

I’d daydream of the things we’d share,
Like late-night bottles and teddy bears.
Like first steps and skinned knees,
Like bedtime stories and ABC’s.

I thought of things you’d want to know,
Like how birds fly and flowers grow.
I thought of lessons I’d need to share,
Like standing tall and playing fair.

When I first saw your precious face,
I prayed your life be touched with grace.
I thanked the angels from above,
And promised you unending love.

Each night I lay you down to sleep,
I gently kiss your head and cheek.
I count your little fingers and toes,
I memorize you eyes and nose.

I linger at your nursery door,
Awed each day I love you more.
Through misty eyes, I dim the light,
I whisper “I Love You” every night.

I loved you from the very start,
You stole my breath, embraced my heart.
As mother and child our journey’s begun,
My heart’s yours forever little one.

a sweet kiss

Tuesday, August 11th, 2009

a sweet kiss to my princess cj

love you baby…

miss you…