Archive for September, 2009

Ilocos day…

Tuesday, September 29th, 2009

Princess cj go to ilocos last September 23, 2009

it was a surprise visit for lola rebing, lolo ambet and tita mean…

and guess what that day was also lola rebings 53rd birthday celebration.

surprise!!! surprise!!! surprise!!!

Bagyong Ondoy.. strikes NCR

Monday, September 28th, 2009

MANILA, Philippines – The National Disaster Coordinating Council today (Sept. 27) reported that typhoon “Ondoy” (international name Ketsana) has left 51 dead in its path.

The casualties were mostly in towns of Rizal province, including San Mateo, Angono, and Tanay, the NDCC partial report said.

Five people were also reported killed in Metro Manila due to massive flooding brought about by the heavy downpour yesterday (Sept.26).

The NDCC said five people were reported dead in Benguet.

It recorded mudslides in the Cordillera Administrative Region and in Teresa and Antipolo in Rizal.

Thumb Sucking

Monday, September 21st, 2009

When your little one can’t keep her finger out of her mouth, should you be concerned?

What it is: Your toddler has a habit of sucking her thumb, particularly when she’s upset, anxious, or tired.

Why it happens: That little thumb (just like a pacifier or “blankie”) is a source of great security at an age when things start to get a little hairy. Your tot is beginning to venture away from you as she explores the world and tests her growing independence. And like all sources of comfort, her thumb comes in especially handy when she’s feeling stressed, pooped, or just out of sorts.

What you need to know: Thumb (or fist or finger) sucking often starts in infancy and peters out by the end of the first year. But plenty of kids hang on to the habit well into toddlerhood and early preschool age. Unless she’s sucking her thumb 23 hours a day you probably don’t have to worry about it becoming an ingrained behavior or affecting her teeth or mouth. In fact, the more you pester (or scold or tease), the more likely she is to suck away. Remind yourself that most kids gradually stop on their own by about age three.

What to do about it: If your toddler is still attached to her thumb sucking at age four, or it’s beginning to interfere with speech or social skills at an earlier age, try these tactics.

  • Play up acting grown-up. Praise her often for “big-girl” behavior (like dressing herself or bringing her dish to the sink); that way, you’ll motivate her to give up other little-kid habits like you-know-what.
  • Keep hands and mouth otherwise occupied. Encourage hands-on activities, such as swinging on a swing, steering a riding toy, or playing with clay. You might also engage her in a chat-fest, sing songs together, or play with musical instruments to distract her from her beloved digit.
  • Motivate with rewards. If she’s at least three, she’s old enough to understand the power of rewards. Promise a special treat if she makes an effort to stop. (You can award stars when she avoids thumb sucking during typically thumb-loving times and pay up once she’s reached her goal; or offer little treats at the end of each thumb-free day.) Teach her to make a fist with her thumb inside when the urge to suck strikes.
  • Provide lots of TLC. Extra hugs, kisses, and attention will make giving up that thumb a little bit easier.
  • Call in a pro. Ask her pediatrician or dentist to talk up the benefits of bidding bye-bye to thumb sucking. Sometimes kids are more apt to listen to an “expert,” though a word from Grandma or Grandpa may help, too. If that fails, then ask the pediatrician or dentist for advice. (No doubt, they’ve both got some tricks up their sleeves.)

quote for today…

Saturday, September 19th, 2009

“What are little girls made of? They’re made of ribbons and butterfly kisses and wonder at Christmas and birthday wishes and a heap of giggles and wiggles and love; these are the things little girls are made of.”

Handling a Stubborn Toddler

Friday, September 18th, 2009

We’ve all seen it: A grim-faced, miserable parent trying to stuff a red-faced, howling toddler into a stroller. “Want to get out! Want to get down!” the little prisoner shrieks. Or we’ve seen the stubborn toddler who is wildly protesting his parent’s attempt to get him into a high chair at a restaurant: His back is arched, his arms are flailing, and his wail is loud as he puts forth a last-ditch attempt to remain free. Yes, we all know that five-point restraints do not sit well with wiggly toddlers, but there are certain situations where a lockdown is inevitable. What’s the best way to get your stubborn toddler to accept the unacceptable, or (failing that) to get him to acquiesce once you lay down the law? There are several approaches you could take:

  • Distract. Yes, distraction, the old standby — is still a good bet. Your aim here is to make your stubborn toddler forget (or simply not notice) that he’s being forced into restraints against his will. So if you’re about to get into the car, and you anticipate a car-seat battle, start something fascinating BEFORE you set off. For instance, play the first few bars of a favorite song on a favorite CD, and then whisk everything (toddler, CD, and all) into the car — where you immediately fire up the tunes again. You may still have a struggle to contend with — but it will be shorter than if you’d skipped the distraction altogether.
  • Offer toys or treats. Wise parents will reserve certain beloved toys, snacks, or even treats for those times their wiggly offspring simply MUST sit still. Just remember, the strategy: Dangle the bait first, then reel ’em in. If you wait till your stubborn toddler is already hysterical in the car seat, handing over a baggie filled with Goldfish will get you exactly nothing (except, maybe, those same goldfish flung at the back of your head). So, show your toddler the bait (his beloved juice box or Elmo) and lure him into the car (or stroller) with it. Or tell him he can have it when he’s buckled in — he may settle down in order to get it.
  • Invent a rule. Tell your toddler that the car won’t start (or the stroller won’t move) unless he’s buckled up. If you’re on your way to a playdate, the park, or someplace else your kid really wants to go, this just might work. Your stubborn toddler won’t sit back in the stroller? “Uh oh. The stroller won’t budge unless we lock this buckle!” Your tot puts up a fight getting into the car? “Uh oh. The car is broken. The only way we can fix it is if we all fasten our seat belts!” If your tot really wants to get moving, he’ll oblige. Keep in mind that this won’t always work, especially if you need to get somewhere fast, but it’s worth a shot.
  • Make Bob the Builder or Dora buckle up. If your tot has a favorite doll, like Bob the Builder, show him how Bob loves to get strapped into his car seat or high chair before your kid has a chance to protest. Strap Bob in as Bob (voiced by you) says, “Oh, I LOVE this car seat. I feel so safe and snug. This is the coziest place to be!” Your stubborn toddler just might fall for it and decide he wants to be strapped in like Bob, too.
  • Grab what’s available. Novelty works wonders when your child is unhappy, whether you’re in a stroller in a store, a grocery cart, or a high chair at a restaurant. So if your stubborn toddler won’t quiet down in his seat, hand him a magazine from the book or magazine aisle or from a rack near the cashier. It may engage him long enough for you to finish your errand. Or treat the grocery store like a snack bar if your kid won’t pipe down. Offer him something new (and tasty) to eat — it’s a lot harder to scream when chewing on some animal crackers. (The cashier will happily ring it up even if the box is half demolished.) What if you’re dealing with a tantrum in a restaurant from your high-chair bound tot? Pass him packets of sugar (to play with, not to eat!) or a mini bottle of ketchup — anything to occupy his hands and mind.
  • Grin and bear it. If all else fails, simply suffer through it. Yes, it’s horrible to drive with a screaming kid in the back of the car. But it happens to everyone sometimes, so try to roll with it. Put your window down, turn on some music, and try to ignore your noisy passenger. What about when you’re on a crowded airplane and your stubborn toddler’s howls of protest won’t quit, despite all of your tricky tactics? Consider it a venerable rite of parental passage, and know that for every scowling fellow traveler there are at least three sympathetic people who’ve been there before. Eventually the plane will land, or your kid will tire out, or the nice lady across the aisle will make a funny face that will somehow break the spell.

Asthma in Toddlers

Thursday, September 17th, 2009

Perhaps it’s your toddler’s persistent cough that first catches your attention. Or a whistling sound that you hear in her breathing. Or maybe it’s the way her colds always tend to linger. Could all these symptoms mean your wheezing wee one has asthma?

What is asthma?
Asthma is a condition in which a person’s breathing tubes (called bronchial airways) occasionally become inflamed, swollen, and filled with mucus, often in response to an allergen or other irritation to the airways. Asthma flare-ups can cause shortness of breath, tightness in the chest, coughing, and/or wheezing — and when it happens to your toddler, it can be downright frightening for both of you. After all, what’s scarier than watching your child not being able to catch her breath?

Why do some kids get asthma?
Asthma is the most common chronic disease in children, and 70 percent of all cases of childhood asthma develop before a child turns three. Why do some kids develop the condition while others don’t? Researchers believe it has to do with a child’s genes and/or environment. In other words, certain hereditary and environmental risk factors can predispose a child to developing asthma. These risk factors include:

  • A family history of asthma or allergies
  • Having eczema or other allergic conditions
  • Living with a smoker
  • Exposure to smoke in the womb
  • Living in an urban, polluted area
  • Low birth weight
  • Obesity

What causes an asthma flare-up?
There are several factors that can trigger asthma in toddlers, but what causes an asthma flare-up in one person may be different from what causes a flare-up in someone else. The most common asthma triggers are:

  • Allergens such as dust, pollen, and pet dander
  • Irritants such as secondhand cigarette smoke, pollution, and paint fumes
  • Infections like a cold or the flu
  • Cold air
  • Exercise
  • Intense emotions, like a temper tantrum

How is the disease diagnosed?
It’s often not easy to diagnose asthma in toddlers because lung-function tests (in which a child blows into a machine that measures how quickly and how much air she can exhale) aren’t accurate in children younger than six. That means the doctor will rely a lot on what you reveal about your child’s symptoms. So take careful notes about what your toddler’s asthma symptoms are, how often they happen, and under what conditions — and bring these notes with you to your appointment. The doctor will also ask you about your family’s medical history (does Mom or Dad have asthma or other allergic conditions?) to try to determine if your toddler is genetically predisposed to developing asthma.

How is asthma in toddlers treated?
For kids younger than three, some doctors will suggest holding off on asthma medication for as long as possible (i.e., until asthma symptoms get worse). That’s because asthma medications are powerful, and experts aren’t sure about the long-term effects they may have on young children. If, however, your toddler has severe flare-ups and it looks like she would really benefit from them (and those benefits outweigh any potential risks), the doc may prescribe medication to see if your child’s symptoms improve.

Depending on the nature of your child’s asthma, the doctor might prescribe one or both of these types of medications:

  • A quick-relief (short-acting) medication called a bronchodilator that quickly opens up your child’s airways when they are swelling during an asthma attack.
  • A preventive (long-acting) medication, like an anti-inflammatory corticosteriod, which your toddler would need to take daily to keep the airways from getting inflamed in the first place.

Unlike other medications that come in a liquid form, which kids can swallow, most asthma medications need to be inhaled so they get delivered directly into your toddler’s airways. Older children and adults can use an inhaler to do this (an inhaler is a handheld device that contains the medication — you put the inhaler’s mouthpiece to your mouth, breath in, and the inhaler releases the medication, usually in the form of a mist). But inhalers can be difficult for toddlers to use. So you’ll probably need to put a little mask over your tot’s mouth and nose that will be attached to the inhaler or a nebulizer (which performs the same function as an inhaler but is bigger and isn’t as easily portable). The mask will make it easier for her to breath in the medicine correctly.

Whether or not your toddler gets medication, it’s also crucial that you do your best to help her steer clear of allergens or irritants that cause her asthma to flare up. That may involve keeping the house clean and dust free (as much as you may hate getting out that mop!) or making sure your child doesn’t have playdates at homes where there are cats. It will take some extra planning, but your efforts will go a long way toward helping your child. And there may be hope on the horizon: Many kids with asthma outgrow the condition by the time they hit adolescence, likely because their airways get bigger. So continue to check in with your child’s doctor regularly and keep tabs on your tot’s symptoms. That way you can stay on top of any changes (good or bad) in her condition.

No More Morning Nap: Changes in Toddler Sleep Habits

Thursday, September 17th, 2009

For months, you’ve cherished your child’s morning nap. That’s when you have some brief yet precious time to yourself to either get things done (laundry, bills, e-mail…the list never ends) or have some rare “me” time (pop in that yoga DVD, have an uninterrupted phone chat, or actually sit down to read the newspaper). Whatever you do, it’s your sacred morning time, and you relish it as much as a piece of chocolate during a bad bout of PMS.

But now your tot isn’t so sleepy in the a.m. anymore. She’s got climbing, running, and exploring to do (Gotta check out what’s in that living-room cabinet!), and snoozing puts the kibosh on the action. So there she is, bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, coasting into midday without the slightest sign of fatigue.

While it might feel like a total inconvenience to you (How dare she disrupt your private time?), it’s completely normal for your toddler to give up her morning siesta around this age. As she grows, her sleep needs change, and the morning nap is one of the first things to go — even if she’s a little cranky at first. Plus, life is a big party for your curious tot, and who wants to sleep during a party?

Rather than fighting this change, you’ll likely be better off taking a deep breath and accepting the new schedule. Help your toddler transition to just one nap a day with these tips:

  • Move up her lunchtime and start her afternoon nap a little earlier. Your toddler will probably sleep better and longer for her afternoon nap if she has a full tummy.
  • Be patient with this transition. It may take a while for your toddler to switch from two naps a day to one, so if she’s fussy at first, that’s normal. Give her some time to adjust to dropping her morning nap. She may even end up going to sleep earlier at bedtime — so be open to modifying her schedule.
  • Replace the morning nap with quiet time. This will help during the transition phase, especially if your toddler isn’t quite ready for only one nap a day but she’s outgrown two full naps. Spend the former morning naptime doing a calm activity like reading a book or doing a puzzle together. That way your toddler will still be relaxing during the time she was used to having a rest.
  • Keep naptime and bedtime routines consistent. Do what you normally do with your tot before sleep — whether it’s reading a book, cuddling in her room, or singing a song. And if you can, have her nap in her crib (not in a stroller or the car) with her lovey or whatever else she’s grown accustomed to having while she sleeps. All of these signals will let your toddler know when it’s time for sleep (even if the timing has changed!).
  • Log your child’s sleep time. You want to make sure she’s still getting 12 to 14 hours a day in total (that’s including naptime and nighttime).
  • Don’t worry about what her friends are doing. Nap schedules can vary greatly depending on the child’s individual needs. Take your cues from your toddler — and start taking your “me” time in the afternoon.

hello…

Thursday, September 17th, 2009

a pretty morning to every one.. :) :D

BAbies…

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

babies are so cute…

huggable…

kissable…

lovable…

best of all….

it is the happiest part

that gave to me…

i love you my princess… :)

qoute for today..

Monday, September 14th, 2009

“Daughters Dance their Way into Your Heart
Whirling on the Tips of Angel Wings;
Scattering Kisses & Gold Dust in our Paths”